I don't exactly know how to help you, but all I can say is that I'm here for you if you need to vent, and I can do my best to help you out. <3 All I can say right now at the top of my head is to take the test again to be completely sure, and if it's positive, then tell your parents and your boyfriend. I'd tell your boyfriend first,, if I were you. It's probably going to be terrifying, telling him and your parents, but you can. Stay strong, beautiful. <3
Wow, I'm not gunna lie, that sucks... But this happened to my sister and she always tells me never to get prego and what to do if i do. So let me start by saying, you have many options. But before you jump to any conclusions and tell anybody DOUBLE CHECK! Take a few pregnancy tests before you assume! And if you are 100% theres a bun in your oven, consider adoption or abortion unless you really want it. My sister had a baby at 18 and it really screwed up here financial plans, relationships and love life, career, and education. If you aren't ready for it and you're not 100% sure that you'll be able to provide for the baby, you shouldn't keep it. It would be a shame for it to be born and not be able to live the best way it can. But if you're pro-life and want to keep it, just be aware of the responsibility your taking on. If you have any difficulties, problems, questions, or just need to vent feel free to talk to me I'm always here :)
Ok, so the first thing you should do is tell your parents, there the only ones who can help you right now and Don't ever consider abortion, always Stay Strong and remember that if your parents can't help you, there's always other people that care about what you're going through so never forget that. Make sure you know who the father is and ask him to help you. He needs to help you no matter what, if he denies, then you don't need to cry about it or worry about it. There are many girls around my neighborhood who have the same problem as you. It's way too much drama, but i think you can handle it with wittians by your side giving you advice. (:
Ok well thank you for your response and I totally agree with you. This is just from my experience. Some people that lived by me have thought of abortion, but this is just MY opinion and you're right it is her choice, but all I'm saying is that it's best to not consider abortion. But thank you for respecting my opinions.
Yeah I understand. I wasn't gonna post cause most girls on here would think I was like yelling at them or something haha I know that its not the best choice also but I do 100% support people who do it
I have gone through this so if you need any help just please comment me! Plus my sister has a baby and a second one on the way so she can give you a lot of advice!
Well you really need to consider ALL of your options and tell your parents first. Telling them is the best thing to do then ask them for advice on what to do. Adoption, abortion or even keeping the baby are options. I hope you will never have to have an abortion but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. Hope all that helps:)))
Okay so firstly you need to be certain that you're pregnant. How many tests did you take? If it's definite, tell you're parents and your boyfriend. It's important that they know so they can support you. I promise that this is all gonna turn out okay. I'm always here for you. Please just come and speak to me if you need me.
be sure you are pregnant. If I were you, I'd take another one. Or I'd go to the doctors and check with them. How did this happen (if you feel comfortable with explaining it?)
Your parents need to know, first off.
How old are you?
if you feel comfortable with it, how did it happen?
do NOT, under ANY circumstances, consider abortion. don't think about avoiding it for anyone except the living human being inside you that will make you smile, laugh, and cry.
When did you find out?
How many pregnancy tests did you take?
How many months pregnant?
What else do you need and how can i possibly help?
I am completely respect your opinion but telling someone not to consider abortion is very inconsiderate. All of the options should be open to the mother.
hey hun, everythings gunna be okay, you'll get through this. Idk your veiws on abortion, but I'm begging you, please don't do it. Keep the baby, or give it up for adoption. I'm adopted, and I have the most wonderful family I could ever ask for. We're all here for you, and I promise you can talk to me any time you need someone.
As difficult as this may seem, it is so important to tell your parents. You're young, you're scared, and you have no idea what to do - your parents are older, wiser, and have been through this before. Get help, hunn, because venting to a website full of girls who are only here to talk does not help your given situation. Take action and do what's right for you and your baby - if you're willing to keep it, that is. The sooner you tell, the sooner you'll start getting all of the help you need, from emotional support from your friends/family to the medical assistance your baby needs.
And you know what? You'll be fine, I promise. You're going to get through this and come out on top. Why? Because STRONG girls always do.
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You have so many people here for you hun, everything is going to be okay.
How old are you?
if you feel comfortable with it, how did it happen?
do NOT, under ANY circumstances, consider abortion. don't think about avoiding it for anyone except the living human being inside you that will make you smile, laugh, and cry.
When did you find out?
How many pregnancy tests did you take?
How many months pregnant?
What else do you need and how can i possibly help?
You're 14
Keep us updated if anything happens kay? :)
And you know what? You'll be fine, I promise. You're going to get through this and come out on top. Why? Because STRONG girls always do.