Please
Read,
My friend who is the sweetest most outgoing person i've
ever met found a guy that, at first, made her smile and feel
good about herself. A few months later he started to be very
clingy and wouldn't let her take a pic or even talk with
another guy. She then tried to break up with him, but that just
made things worse. He then threatened to kill or harm himself
if she broke up with him. She came to my friends house and hung
out with her. After 2 hours of not talking to him she admitted
that it felt great, almost like she was free. Then she checked
her text messages and he texted her a bunch of times telling
her that it wasn't right to leave hima astray for so long.
She spent the rest of the day apologizing for something that
wasn't even wrong. They then went to a party together, and
he took advantage of her. This type of action that
she's enduring is called emotional
abuse. She might be strong and confident but
one characteristic that she lacks is standing up for herself.
Emotional abuse almost always leads to Physical abuse. I dont
want it to ever get there but she wont listen to anyone. She
once told me this, "Even
if he did physically abuse me, i wouldn't tell
anyone." This is
so serious. I know its not my decision but if she's not
going to get help soon then i might need to do it myself. A
bunch of people who care about her are going to go to guidance
and tell them about her relationship. If that doesn't help
then were going head on. We'll speak our minds to
him.
- A Friend
If you read this thank you. I really needed to
vent. This isn't something fake it's as real as it
gets.