So, He called me fat.
2-12-13
Before I explain the situation, and how he
called me fat..
There's more stories.
Trevor & I had this wonderful conversation Saturday night,
and we had a great time, then Sunday is when I found out about
the other girl. She's gorgeous. How the hell do I compete
with.. that? I'm not even going to try. I guess whatever
happens, happens? Just let it be, right? I really don't want
to start a fight with Trevor, that's what will happen, and
hey, I like another guy too, but I haven't told him. So,
it's not fair to get mad at him. Right? Well, strange things
have been happening.
He calls me "Love" now. like,
"Hey Love!"
"Yes, love."
"Well, my love.."
He let me wear his sweatshirt yesterday, it was actually cute how
he gavee it to me. I wanted one of his sweatshirts awhile ago,
and he said no matter what he would bring it this coming monday.
So monday comes along, and he's wearing a sweatshirt, but it
didn't look like he had another one with him. So I go;
"You forgot."
& He goes;
"Does this red sweatshirt go with these blue
shoes?!"
I go, "No..."
He goes; "It's yours"
Then gave it to me in front of a lot of people, the thing was
huge on me, but whatever. I gave it back today.
NOW BACK TO THE FAT THING.
In Italian class today, I sit behind my friend Jake, and Trevor
sits up one seat next row to my left. Our friend Jason was
fooling around and sat on Trevor's lap. So, me, joking around
asked Jake if I could sit on his lap, & Trevor goes,
"No you can't, you're too fat"
......
I'm 5'8" & I weigh 111lbs, is
that fat...?
He always jokes about my weight, I told him nicely to stop
awhile ago, and today he called me fat again. It bothered me. So,
I just didn't say anything for the rest of class. He tried
talking to me, he offered me his shirt, and he told me everything
he knew about me,
But he did not once apologize for calling me fat, and that's
what bugs me.
I told him; "What if I went home and just starved
myself?"
& he didn't say anything.,He never apologized.
He bought me a stuffed turtle, too, and I'm getting it
tomorrow, and it's a really sweet gesture, but, he never
apologized.
Besides the whole I'm fat thing, I love the stuff he's
doing, but I just think it's playing with my emotions. He
calls me love, babe, boo, Lilyboo, and he gives me his clothes,
and he buys me stuff, and he tells me he loves me, and he hugs me
every day, it's just all misleading, we aren't even
dating.
Adviceeeeeeeeeeee......?
Comment..
But, as for all the cute things he does for you.... he might just see you as a really good friend. It's happened to me before. You think they like you because of all the stuff they do but really they just care about you - there's a difference between 'love' and 'care'.
I would suggest being straight up with him about it - even if it makes you feel weird and awkward. Guys don't get hints, at all, ever. Just tell him basically exactly what you said in this quote. x