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hey you guys, I need a bit of advice, can anyone help me out?


hey you guys,
I need a bit of advice, can anyone help me out?


I have crazy social anxiety & I really want to invite friends over to my house instead of waiting for them to invite me, but I'm terrified of it being awkward or there being nothing to do so it's really boring.

(god I sound so pathetic)

If anyone has any stuff that they do with their friends (especially people you don't know super well) when they're over at your house, or just tips or ideas or anything, PLEASE comment them?

 

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Schizophrenia21 1 decade ago
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Make food! Cupcakes, brownies, fruit salad, anything yummy(:
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secret_ninja 1 decade ago
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Oh god all the other coments seem really exciting... Me and my friends stalk people on facebook XD (joking) we watch tv, talk and do just dance!
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bella is a penguin * 1 decade ago
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Prank people on omegle telling them that you're Justin Bieber or something, blind makeovers, do weird things like stalk people at Target and say creepy stuff. I dunno. Maybe. *sigh*
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fearless12xoxo 1 decade ago
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bake, do blind makeovers or regular... watch funny movies
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soccermm 1 decade ago
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I just do whatever I would normally do with my brother or sister but with my friend (: you dont have to do something special everytime...me & my best guy friend can lay on his bed & just talk or listen to music for the whole day and have a blast (:
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it_goes_on* 1 decade ago
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Movie marathon, omegle, prank calls
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lilybye 1 decade ago
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well, last weekend i had to go to this thing in des moines, (i'm really social awkward) and it was my sister, a close friend of mine and two other girls, and i was still kinda ishy, but my youth director brought a book for us, it was called 'Gimme Five' (note: i go to school with one of the girls in the car that i didn't know and she wouldn't and still won't look at me, we've known each other for over five years) and t'd give you a question like, "name five names you shouldn't give a dog" or other questions, and we all had a lot of fun with that, we all laughed, even though it was inCredible awkward. Maybe if you can't find the book, make up some of your own? i don't know :p
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Inhalexbieber* 1 decade ago
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I completely the same exact way. But i go on omegle to get them to laugh since everyone laughs at inapropriate(SPELLED HORRIBLY WRONG IK IK ) things. Lol :D
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MissCourtney 1 decade ago
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actually, i think you spelled that right, hahah
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pluto* 1 decade ago
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Board games, omegle, bake a cake or cupcakes, watch movies, blind makeovers, dress up funny, film a movie that you guys could make up, lol
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kclove5 1 decade ago
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-man hunt
-watch a movie on netflix or from redbox or wherever
-play video games (i.e. just dance, always fun with groups and you don't even need a remote)
-play board games (something fun though. i have this game called Quelf and my friends and i love it. 100/10 highly recommend)
-if its warm enough you should ask your parents to start a fire and make smores! or you can make them on the stove
-play "never have i ever" with kool aid or some other drink you like - its a good way to get to know people and see what you have in common
-have a nerf gun war (this depends on if you have nerf guns but i always find them fun)

i would stay away from watching youtube videos, going on facebook, going on tumblr, etc.
personally, i find it quite annoying when people do that while i'm over their house
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stellarflame* 1 decade ago
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At the party yesterday we just famed and screamed. Always fun. And don't worry, if it is awkward, it will only be for the first 5 minutes. It'll get better
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asianmayonnaise 1 decade ago
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Dude you just described my life. XD
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dulldawn001 1 decade ago
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watch movies, go on omegle, gossip, do blind makeovers,ect. you dont want to seem to planned, or else you may come off as weird (if these are new friends). just be calm and play everything by a year. be open for change.
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.joyriding.* 1 decade ago
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and buy face masks, its so fun. makeovers are fun too, just get loads of sweets and junk foods.
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.joyriding.* 1 decade ago
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watch high school musical singalong and everyone had to join in. (just scream the lyrics, its awesome) truth or dare, would you rather, and f/ck marry kill are good ones if you want to get to know someone.
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BiggestMusicFreak 1 decade ago
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ok um i always talk/gossip with music and whatnot with my franns with junkfood and when things slow down watch tv
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Infinite* 1 decade ago
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Here are my suggestions:
Get some rocks from outside, paint them, and then walk them around a populated area to see everyones reaction.
Go to a pretty park or a place with a nice landscape and take pictures. It's fun doing weird poses and all that shtuff. Or there's always trees. Trees are cool.
Climb a tree! My friend and I did that. Then, I got stuck for like twenty minutes, and that was pretty fun.
Like others have been saying, rent a movie.
Go into the kitchen and without a specific goal in mind, try to create something! Use a bunch of random ingredients and cooking methods, and see what it ends up as.
Do something a little weird, but kind. Write a bunch of inspirational things on sticky notes, and then go out and stick them everywhere. On a cereal box in a grocery story, on someones doorknob, somewhere where random people will find them.
Truth or dare....two truths and a lie.....
Simple art projects http://www.the36thavenue.com/2011/11/25-handmade-gifts-under-5.html There's a section two and three of this website too with more ideas. I've tried some and they're super awesome.
Go shopping.
Paint nails, do hair, make up......not my personal favorite, but it's an option
like everyone said...good food is the key to success :) Also you're super awesome, so that's another key to success
there are always board games
I've played this game with six people and it was SUPER funny https://www.theredheadedhostess.com/home-and-family/fun-home-and-family/fun-family-game-2-the-sentence-game/
Take a long walk, and discuss life :P
If you invite more than one person, you won't be responsible for keeping the conversation going.
Put on music and dance crazily.
Make up a weird play and video tape it.
There's always the computer.
And then the classic, buy a bunch of lemons, write the word life on a shirt, and try handing them out. I actually did this and the reactions were hilarious. It didn't work, so we just scattered them around a park. It was really really fun.

Hope this helped!!!!
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whoami* 1 decade ago
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Once, my friend and I did blind make-overs on each other and it was a lot of fun and the outcome was hilarious :)
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gray22 1 decade ago
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i feel exactly the same that's why I'm pratically always home alone in the holidays :/ i think you should just watch a funny film or watch funny youtube videos.... that's all i do with my friends xD
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crazylifelover 1 decade ago
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watch movies/tv, classic truth/dare, make bows (so much fun and super easy and you obviously get really cute bows out of it!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqgA0zBZhQc), play the 'ball game' and make it beforehand http://www.residentassistant.com/games/icebreakers/beachball.htm, play never have i ever, little stuff like this can make the party really fun with your friends and MAKE SURE YOU HAVE GOOD FOOD!! good food will make everything else end up working! lol but seriously(:
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