Guys I need help. I need to know if i did the right thing....
So there's this kid who has been in love with me for the longest time. Finally i thought i liked him and i told him that. 2 days ago He grabbed my hands &&& said I love you and kissed me then hugged me then kissed me again then we walked and when he said bye he hugged me & then kissed me on the cheek. However, after we kissed i felt nothing. After all that it was nothing, like no emotion. I knew right there i didn't like him. I talked it over with my friend Parker, &&& he said you should tell him that you felt nothing when you kissed. You should tell him that you dont want to be in a fake relationship, you dont want to lead him on into a relationship if you dont like him, because that will hurt him more. I did what Parker said i explained to him everything &&& now he hates me... I understand he's hurt i totally do! But did i do the right thing? I thought i chose the best for him... HELP!
So there's this kid who has been in love with me for the longest time. Finally i thought i liked him and i told him that. 2 days ago He grabbed my hands &&& said I love you and kissed me then hugged me then kissed me again then we walked and when he said bye he hugged me & then kissed me on the cheek. However, after we kissed i felt nothing. After all that it was nothing, like no emotion. I knew right there i didn't like him. I talked it over with my friend Parker, &&& he said you should tell him that you felt nothing when you kissed. You should tell him that you dont want to be in a fake relationship, you dont want to lead him on into a relationship if you dont like him, because that will hurt him more. I did what Parker said i explained to him everything &&& now he hates me... I understand he's hurt i totally do! But did i do the right thing? I thought i chose the best for him... HELP!
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dulldawn001
1 decade ago
you did the right thing because he would have been even more hurt if you led him on the whole time. its better that as soon that you relized you didnt like him you told him. it shows that you are a good person, because most people in our society today would just play along (which causes people to get really hurt).
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happiest*
1 decade ago
Yes you did the right thing.It's for his best and i'm proud you did that but you should get little closed to him and not hate him but understand him cus he's hurt and he doesn't know what he's doing :/...
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ArtLover
1 decade ago
You did do the right thing, some people may not think so but you did. By telling the guy that you had no feelings for him you gave him a chance to find someone that truly loves him. He will oneday forgive you for what you did, because he will know that it was the right choice. Don't feel bad, just think of what you did for him.
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