I made this account because i needed to tell someone
about this :(
its a long story, but please read on because i dont think anyone
really cares..
Okay so..
I've been crushing on this guy for about a year. My best friend
started crushing on him a few months ago. We both promised that
niether of us would date him or flirt or anything like that,
because it wasn't fair. Later on, I find out that they are
going to prom together, she asked him. I tried not to let my
jealousy and pain show, so i let them. The day after that, they
went on a date and were boyfriend and girlfriend. Still, hiding my
jealousy & pain. It's been a few weeks since their
relationship started, and they're telling each other they love
each other and theyre holding hands, and buying each other romantic
things, and going on tons of dates.
I can't do this anymore.
I've waited too long to tell her that I don't like how she
completely broke the promise and I want to tell her that I still
like him. I can't now. That'll ruin their relationship and
they're both good friends of mine. My crush and my best friend
both go to me for advice and it's so hard to give them my best
advice because i don't want it to happen..
I don't know if I'm overreacting..
My crush is my best guy friend, and i know ill never get any closer
now, even if he breaks up with my best friend, i can't date my
best friends ex..
I don't think anyone will really care..
But if you have at least read all of this.. then I love you.
Please.. advice? :(
But never let a guy get inbetween friendships. It is not worth it. Friends are forever. Boyfriends are the heat of the moment type things. Just appreciate other guys you do have in your life. The ones unnoticed sometimes mean the most. Have your friend invite some new guys and mingle! This is about being young and fun.
But most of all, confront your friend. tell her everything you feel. If you actually talk, tell her to let you talk and then she can speak. Texting or a hand written letter might be easier to let her know. But dont hold back. Speak like you did above.
Hope I helped! :) comment on my profile if you need more advice!