Yes, I was creeping on your profile.😂 But you need to be yourself because as soon as you can accept yourself, others will. Be proud of who you are. Life's to short to live a secret. But yeah I'm sure you've heard this numerous times but I wouldn't feel complete if I didn't comment (:
I'm sorry I'm so late <3
Anyways, I honestly don't know what to say. I know that you're an amazing person and you're strong enough to handle this (when I say that, I don't mean it in the context that being bisexual or gay is a bad thing. It's just so confusing. But you can handle it.) I completely trust you to make the right decisions and literally if you ever need anyone to talk to you know where to find me (but you're better off using my quote account because this one likes to glitch out) and even though I can't relate to being bisexual, I can offer advice to the best of my ability.
I love you Eli <3
I've never respected someone more right now. I honestly do not have any friends that are or have come out as lesbian, gay or bi but I will always be avaliable if you need ANYTHING. Seriously, ANYTHING. Be yourself and if people don't except you then scre* them. <3
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One of my best friends in the entire world came out to me a couple of weeks ago, and she told me she was bi. And she found it hard, but she told me that she had a crush on me:) I took it as a compliment, and it's brought us closer, I've supported her through and through, and she's a lot more confident now. Don't be too scared of what might happen, because you honestly never know! It may come as a shock at first but hey, he'll get over it. He's your friend, right? Friends stuck together.
You* obviously can't read. He's bisexual, not gay. Okay. And do you really think that's offensive? Gay is simply a sexual orientation. It isn't an insult -- to most people.
You don't need to be a jerk to Eli. This was very brave of him. If you don't approve, well, you can leave.
i have no f/cking idea who you are, hell, i don't even know your name, but congradulations for coming out with your sexuality. you just have to be yourself, and to everyone who won't except you, F/CK 'EM! you do what you think is best for you.
there's nothing wrong with being bisexual. you just need to expect who you are& live with it. don't hide under the covers, embrace your sexuality.
if you feel like you're not ready to embrace it, maybe take some time between you and the world. take a few days off& just think about what you really want. if you want Jadah, go for her. if you want Dylan, go for him! if neither of them can except you for who you are, then they pbviously don't deserve your time.
good luck, &if you ever need to talk, i'll be here :3
I don't know you, but I'm proud of you for accepting who you are. Congratulations. That's something quite a bit of people have trouble doing (including myself). You don't have to come out just yet since you just discovered it, but just know that when you DO decide it's time to be open about it, only your opinion of yourself matters. If at the end of the day, you're comfortable with your sexuality, that's what actually matters.
It's gonna be okay man, just be yourself. It's okay if you're scared. My best friend is bi, and I was the first one she told. I'm completely okay with this. If you need to talk, we're all here for ya (:
even if you're not ready to accept that you're bisexual, know that your family and true friends will totally accept you for who you are! there's nothing wrong with being bisexual, always just be yourself. i'm here if you need to talk to anyone!
Dude, if you ever wanna talk, I'm here. If you're bisexual, that's cool, and even if you aren't ready to be yourself yet, be ready to embrace this about yourself; it seems that you already do. However, if you're concerned about them liking each other, that's out of your control. You can only wish the best for them, whether that be that one of them ends up with you or with each other, and you can only do so much. Still, you're a great guy, and I wish you the best of luck.
Anyways, I honestly don't know what to say. I know that you're an amazing person and you're strong enough to handle this (when I say that, I don't mean it in the context that being bisexual or gay is a bad thing. It's just so confusing. But you can handle it.) I completely trust you to make the right decisions and literally if you ever need anyone to talk to you know where to find me (but you're better off using my quote account because this one likes to glitch out) and even though I can't relate to being bisexual, I can offer advice to the best of my ability.
I love you Eli <3
You don't need to be a jerk to Eli. This was very brave of him. If you don't approve, well, you can leave.
there's nothing wrong with being bisexual. you just need to expect who you are& live with it. don't hide under the covers, embrace your sexuality.
if you feel like you're not ready to embrace it, maybe take some time between you and the world. take a few days off& just think about what you really want. if you want Jadah, go for her. if you want Dylan, go for him! if neither of them can except you for who you are, then they pbviously don't deserve your time.
good luck, &if you ever need to talk, i'll be here :3