im not single at the moment, but i usually am... i don't like relationships, and for a long time wasn't mature enough for the commitment of it... I'm 16, not married... it took me a long long time to warm up to it, and i still have my doubts, but i think that being so picky and making absolute sure that i love the person I'm considering as a boyfriend before we become official has its benefits in the long run. so don't be self-concious about being single. be proud. make it known that you expect people to treat you right, and don't settle for anything less.you'll end up surrounded by people who care about you for who you are, not just what your body has to offer.