Hey guys, So I need some advice. In November my best friend started
dating my best guy friend. I was so happy for them and they make
like the perfect couple. My best friend asked me if it was okay
before she said yes or if it would be really weird for me. I said
yes ofcourse because they make the perfect match and make eachother
so happy. Jokingly I said "just don't forget about your sister!"
And she said "of course I won't! Sisters before misters, i'll
always be here for you!" When they first started dating my best
friend was really happy and talked about him a lot. I figured she
was just excited because he's her first boyfriend and once they
were dating for a bit she would stop talking about him 24/7. But
it's gotten worse. Now we never hang out just the two of us
anymore, he ALWAYS comes. Which I don't mind sometimes because he's
one of my best friends and like a big brother to me and everything
but sometimes I want to just hang out with her or just hang out
with him. When I do hang out with just him (which usually if I ask
him to hang oit he doesn't even ask her unless I say to) he talks
about her a little but not a lot, a normal amount. But whenever I
ask her to hang out she ALWAYS invites him. We've hung out once in
the past 3 months with just us two. We had a sleepover, and all she
talked about was him. I miss when we hung out before. Tomorrow we
were supposed to hang out just us two and I was really excited. I
have a lot to tell her because the majority of her time she spends
with him and I haven't seen her outside of school in about a month.
She just texted me though and said "hey! I hope you don't mind I
invited (her boyfriend) to come tomorrow! I know we don't hang out
much anymore I just felt bad because none of his friends are around
tomorrow and I don't want him to have to sit at home alone." I said
it's fine but I miss my old best friend. I don't wamt her to get
mad if I say something but ALL she talks about is him and it gets a
little annoying. Any ideas on what to do? I probably sound like a
selfish jerk right now but I really am happy for them I just really
miss my best friend. Thank you soo much in advance if you have any
advice.
Make sure to tell her how you feel. In the end, you'll feel like closer friends.
Hope this helps!