I Need Advice/Help
Ok so my boyfriend of two/three days now said
something to me that really struck and broke me
Normally this
wouldnt have done this to me but it hurts me
He was so nice
and is still so sweet and ive known him for a while soo we
started dating
now im wondering if i made the wrong choice....
He said that most of the girls that he dated were a mistake and that he shouldnt have dated them
and i said not to say that cuz thats what makes him himself and how i found him
he kept saying it and finally i got upset and told him to stop and that it really upset me
i dont want to be just one of his other mistakes i dont want to be like that
and i dont know if i should stay with him although its only been like 3 days
i know its early in the realationship but ive known him for quite a while now and this just is a side of him i dont like
should i stay or should i go
this really upsets me and i dont know what to do
the main girl he was talking about dated him for about 5 days but she was so sweet and they are still friends and i really like her
but he said it was crap and he wish he wouldnt have dated her
im glad if i dated anyone like wtf even if it was like for an hour i would have been glad for the experiance and continued even with any of my other relationships i dont regret a single one becuz they made me who i am and i appreciate every human being that decided i was going to be special for them
and even if i wasnt i was with them and they changed me
i regret none of the relationships like sure they made me sad and upset me but i would never changed whether i was with them whether it was for a couple a days months or years
it just upsets me that he considers them mistakes because they arent they just werent for him nobody is a mistake everyone comes into your life for a reason and it really upsets me that he would think that
and so im not sure what to do
whether to blow it off and continue the relationship or to dump him and have him learn his lesson and just stay friends........
help me out i know you cant make my descion for me but i want
to know what you would do how you would react and ill make my descion eventually i just want some help thanks for anyone that responds
now im wondering if i made the wrong choice....
He said that most of the girls that he dated were a mistake and that he shouldnt have dated them
and i said not to say that cuz thats what makes him himself and how i found him
he kept saying it and finally i got upset and told him to stop and that it really upset me
i dont want to be just one of his other mistakes i dont want to be like that
and i dont know if i should stay with him although its only been like 3 days
i know its early in the realationship but ive known him for quite a while now and this just is a side of him i dont like
should i stay or should i go
this really upsets me and i dont know what to do
the main girl he was talking about dated him for about 5 days but she was so sweet and they are still friends and i really like her
but he said it was crap and he wish he wouldnt have dated her
im glad if i dated anyone like wtf even if it was like for an hour i would have been glad for the experiance and continued even with any of my other relationships i dont regret a single one becuz they made me who i am and i appreciate every human being that decided i was going to be special for them
and even if i wasnt i was with them and they changed me
i regret none of the relationships like sure they made me sad and upset me but i would never changed whether i was with them whether it was for a couple a days months or years
it just upsets me that he considers them mistakes because they arent they just werent for him nobody is a mistake everyone comes into your life for a reason and it really upsets me that he would think that
and so im not sure what to do
whether to blow it off and continue the relationship or to dump him and have him learn his lesson and just stay friends........
help me out i know you cant make my descion for me but i want
to know what you would do how you would react and ill make my descion eventually i just want some help thanks for anyone that responds
DEAR EVERYONE ALIVE,
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND NOT A MISTAKE
I LOVE YOU
KEEP LIVING
KEEP SHINING AND BE YOU
AND REMEMBER EVERYONE IS HERE FOR A REASON
LOVE YOU ALL <3
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So what I'm saying is stay with him