I am the last
person to offer relationship advice to anyone
I see people always talking about being in love, like its the most important thing in their lives, or being hurt, being dumped, being abandoned, being happy because they are so in love
I see it, but I don't understand it, I don't understand the appeal of it, or the pain of it, because I have never been in love, with anyone.
I don't understand how it feels to be dumped or rejected by someone, or how it feels to be admired by someone or to be in love with someone
Love seems like a scary, complicated thing
And my life is already pretty scary and beyond complicated, with just me dealing with it
I can't make room for another person. I couldn't trust someone that much
I have too many secrets
I see people always talking about being in love, like its the most important thing in their lives, or being hurt, being dumped, being abandoned, being happy because they are so in love
I see it, but I don't understand it, I don't understand the appeal of it, or the pain of it, because I have never been in love, with anyone.
I don't understand how it feels to be dumped or rejected by someone, or how it feels to be admired by someone or to be in love with someone
Love seems like a scary, complicated thing
And my life is already pretty scary and beyond complicated, with just me dealing with it
I can't make room for another person. I couldn't trust someone that much
I have too many secrets
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ajxo*
9 years ago
Love is a wonderful thing, and the pain that comes with it is just a life lesson, never be closed minded to love!
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[deleted]
9 years ago
I have a hard enough time just liking myself, its great people are in love and can find love, I just don't see myself loving anyone or anyone ever loving me...
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ajxo*
9 years ago
Trust me you don't find love, love comes to you at the most unexpected moments.. I hated myself then someone came along and made me feel great about myself, and all though we broke up and my heart was hurting it actually made me realize that I'm worth something
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[deleted]
9 years ago
I think I am too afraid to ever fully trust anyone.....that sounds weird, but its true....Honestly, i am so used to being ignored, if someone was ever actually interested in me, it would probably freak me out instead of make me happy
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ajxo*
9 years ago
It doesn't sound weird that you're scared to trust someone! It's a scary thing to think that you'll give your everything to someone and can only hope they'll do the same, and it's definitely weird at first when someone shows interest but then as your feeling develop you get more comfortable with the idea. This may happen tomorrow, next week, next month, maybe even next year. You never know, but when it comes along take it one step at a time and you'll be okay I promise
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littledirectionerchristian*
9 years ago
Hey I was the exact same way but I eventually came aroumd and found somebody I could trust with my secrets. Maybe the same thing will happen to you. Keep your eyes open and you'll understand it soon
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