i'm gonna tell you this in my perspective: i have two roommates who both have boyfriends. and i love them to death, they're both SUPER nice and hilarious and i get along very well with both of them. i don't ever mind when they come in the room, because that's just stupid to get upset over. but i do understand the whole him sleeping over. one of my roommates constantly has her 22 year old boyfriend over every weekend and it gets frustrating because it's literally every weekend and he's kind of controlling with her and she can never have fun with us and it is super awkward to just have him there... chillin in the room while i change, in the corner might i add so he won't see anything, and then waking up to him next to my face because he's looking in the mirror or walking out of the room (my bed is next to the door, so that's my problem - but even still.) so i do understand the whole not wanting him to sleep over. but at the same time, they should let you have him over occasionally. maybe not all the time, or every other day, but once in a while doesn't hurt. if my roommates boyfriend came even once a week i would be more content with that then three times a week. i'm sorry if my comment was unneeded but i just wanted to put in my ten cents because maybe it'll let you see what might be going on. talk to your roommates. and even if you're not super close with them, like i am with mine (i've known one since kindergarten and the other we instantly became best friends when we met the first month of school), hopefully they will listen. but just listen to them too because you still have at least three or four more months with them and let me tell you how awkward it is to live with a roommate you never talk to because of this. it isn't worth losing a friendship. but it also isn't worth ending your relationship.

If you can't have guests, then neither can they. You're all paying to be there, you all have equal right to the space. They can go sit on a cactus.

they don't get along with my boyfriend and tell my RA when he stays over that they are "uncomfortable". yet when they have guests over and i complain my RA doesn't do for me. it's so messed up.

Tell them too bad and they can't do anything about it cx

i wish but my RA yells at me and it's like so unfair. it really is.