“I love you, but I’m mad at you is one of the most
freeing, important things you can say in a stable relationship.
Does that make sense? To know that you have the ability and the
right to be mad at someone and know that it doesn’t mean
things are over, that it doesn’t mean things are
irreparable. That it just means I’m mad, but God, I love
you. I love you. Now leave me alone.”
— To be good, to save nothing