If I'm being honest, you're only over it if you don't think about them much. Once you start going about your day without seeing things and thinking you want to tell them about it. When you start sleeping without thinking of them before drifting off. When you don't check their social media, and don't particularly care or hope for them to text you. It's not love or hate, because both is caring. Moving on is indifference. Letting go is pressing past all of the shadows.
~ Sri Sathya Sai Baba quotes