i
don't
believe
in
the
nice guy. I think that everyone has a
nice side, and a bad side. I believe that we all snap when we
should be patient and say things without totally thinking them
through. I believe that we all have the capability to be
compassionate and giving and empathetic and everything in
between. But I do not believe that by simply being
communicative and candidly interested in someone you are
automatically “one of the nice ones”. You
don’t get to automatically label yourself as better or
nicer than someone. You don’t get to use being a nice guy
as a reason to attempt to push your way into someone’s
life. You don’t get to cry “nice guy” when
things don’t go your way and pout about not being chosen.
And you don’t get to cast yourself as the hero in someone
else’s story. Because you know what? They might not even
be looking for a hero. I know I'm not. I'm my
own hero.
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