"They all tell me to get over him, and they repeat the words

"They all tell me to get over him, and they repeat the words "if once upon a time, you lived without him then surely you can do that now."Ah but they didn't understand was that, back then I never felt something so deep, something like love. So how do I possibly get over someone who has changed everything for me? My whole perspective on love,life.. I just can't and yes I didn't know him once upon a time, but that was when I had no idea what love was and now I do. Once someone makes a firm mark on your heart, then you cannot forget them. No matter how you many times they have hurt you, you just can't erase it."