literally has nothing to do with me.
It’s about you rating and weighing my behavior against a
two-dimensional caricature of a woman that you think deserves
basic decency. I respect myself. What you mean is ‘please
conform to my personal, rigid beliefs of what I deem acceptable
for a woman because it’s up to me to decide who deserves
to be treated like a human being or not based entirely on
meaningless socialized and sexist
values.’