theres two types of pain in life, the pain of discipline and the pain of regret. this is just the pain of discipline, not know how he feels, scared to hurt your friends, but the pain of regret is gunna kill you even worse later on. so tell him how you feel and if it was meant to be then it will happen, if not, then you just know you two weren 't meant to be.
i say just go with ur heart. not ur head. you have to always remmeber that sometimes in life you have to keep in mind yourself and how you feel. im in love with my best friend. he loves me back.... big problem... you will be ok just go with the flow
I say be honest. It will make you feel much better. Just tell him that you like him and say that you don't want it to screw up your friendship. I was in the same situation and he understood, and you never know he may like you back:D. And you are not being selfish by putting your feelings first you need to in a situation like this. And as for your friends that like him well you should be honest with them. If they are true friends they will understand and in the end he will end up deciding who he wants to go out with you and your friends can fight about it all you want but he decides. So I don't know if that helped, but I hope it did:D
Dear im_in_love_with_you,
I'm just like you. I think only of what others will feel and not what i feel. This problem has happened to me before and i needed advice so bad but i never got it and then i realized for once in my life i need to care for myself and not feel bad about it. With my experience I feel you need to take charge and tell him how you feel.. because when i told my guy i felt relieved but i was scared still and it didnt ruin our relationship like i thought and were the best of friends still.. i know my heart will always love him but he just isnt for me. and maybe you need to take that risk and find out instead of wondering what could have maybe been. and the friends thing..once i told him yes i felt great but i thought of my friends and i nearly threw my heart up..but one they found out they werent mad they were supportive and hopefully yours will be too. and if they arent im here to help you through it. Just know that whatever happens was meant to happen...noRegrets.
-Hannnnahhhhh
p.s. idk you but im here for you whenever for whatever!
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I'm just like you. I think only of what others will feel and not what i feel. This problem has happened to me before and i needed advice so bad but i never got it and then i realized for once in my life i need to care for myself and not feel bad about it. With my experience I feel you need to take charge and tell him how you feel.. because when i told my guy i felt relieved but i was scared still and it didnt ruin our relationship like i thought and were the best of friends still.. i know my heart will always love him but he just isnt for me. and maybe you need to take that risk and find out instead of wondering what could have maybe been. and the friends thing..once i told him yes i felt great but i thought of my friends and i nearly threw my heart up..but one they found out they werent mad they were supportive and hopefully yours will be too. and if they arent im here to help you through it. Just know that whatever happens was meant to happen...noRegrets.
-Hannnnahhhhh
p.s. idk you but im here for you whenever for whatever!