just to keep y'all in the loop, when I went out with
the overly
obsessed guy on valentine's day, it was a disaster. I
canceled
the night before, and he said that it was fine, and in
the morning
he randomly showed up at my house and still expected to
go out.
before we left, he did that jacka.ss move where he
asked how long
it'd take me to get ready, even tho I was
ready (sorry bro, you just
showed up at my house, when I was still sleeping, I'm
not going
to go take a quick shower.) then, he took me to chinese, and
I did
not want to go out to eat, like I just wanted to go to
walmart or
something tbh. anyway, he made me order food. I ate
small pieces
of chicken that I could slip into my mouth fast and in one,
neat, bite
and made a rice, chicken, and broccoli castle with the rest.
after,
he took me to his cousins house, which was something I asked
him
not to do, repeatedly (he didn't even tell me until we got
there, and I
told him multiple times to not make me go to see anyone-
guys. do.
not. respect. this. ever.) and he basically forced me out of
his truck to
go inside for "a quick second." we were
there forever. his uncle kept
making fun of me, and they all made uncomfortable jokes
that crossed
the line, for me. I was wearing my lavender
"fluffywuffy" boots, and they
would not leave me alone because of it. the guy I was with
said "yeah,
she has matching lingerie" ... I basically just met him
that day, so I felt like
that was hella inappropriate. and then the r.ape
jokes. they said my boots
made me look like I "just r.aped the cookie
monster" or that I "just r.aped
barney." it was the uncle, but the guy I was with knew
that I had s.hit
happen to me, and he repeated the jokes directly to me and
laughed so
hard one would think he would have s.hit himself if he
laughed any harder.
fast forward to being home, he was apparently talking trash
about me, and I
didn't get the whole entire story until today. basically
he said I wouldn't talk to
him, and made everything awkward. I tried talkting to him,
but if it wasn't about
him, he didn't want to talk about it. then he said
"I paid for her food, and she just
played with it." um, excuse you, you made me order and
I offered to pay for my
food, but you made me go into situations I didn't want
to be in, so I decided to
keep the whole $6 my food cost. plus, my rice castle, with a
surrounding wall
of chicken, and broccoli embellishments was fab. oh,
and he told my best
friend's mom that I tried to get him to buy me alcohol??
lol I made a joke.
he was bragging about being old enough to drink and was
talking about
getting drunk all the time so I made a comment like
"ayee, hook a sista up."
I guess jokes about r.ape are better than jokes
about underage drinking.
who knew.
tl;dr -
my valentine's day sucked, and self proclaimed "good
guys"
are literally never good guys. if you have to fight so hard
to
convince people you aren't a bad guy, then you sure as
hell
aren't doing something right, and maybe you should
stop.