I hate how when
someone
considers themselves "curvy"
everyone throws a fit. like guess
what, not everyone that is bigger
than you, thinks you should "eat
a sandwich" or something. and
it doesn't mean you should just
be allowed to call someone fat.
skinny is generally a compliment,
fat is always an insult. the word
fat ruins people. there are people
out there that starve themselves
to be called skinny, and not fat.
do you realize how HARD it can
be to be bigger? there are FAR
MORE smaller people that pick
apart "fat" people, saying things
like "there's a difference between
curvy and obese and a fat a.ss.."
or "curvy is fine but obese and fat
is disgusting.." than there are people
telling you to eat a d.amn sandwhich.
I am just getting really f.ucking sick
of seeing the same f.ucking quote
on this website, "why is it okay to
call me skinny and I can't call you
fat? if you can love your curves
why can't I love my bones? If you
can tell me to eat something why
can't I tell you to stop eating?"
First off, you can, but it'd make you
a b.itch. Just like the person telling
you to eat something is being a
b.itch to you. Secondly, that causes
f.ucking eating disorders. Thirdly,
"fat" only has NEGATIVE meaning,
skinny is a compliment most of the
time. there's a difference.
When people lose weight and get
skinny, the reaction is "omg, you
look so pretty now. wow." as if
fat made them a monster before
and when someone gains weight,
it is always like "lol did you hear
about ____? man they really let
themselves go. they got super
heavy. it's gross." I have literally
overheard people say both
about people. It's never positive
if someone gains weight. NEVER.
It's not cool to skinny shame,
and it's not cool to fat shame.
and I tried to be calm about
this, but people on this godd.amn
website can't grasp the fact that
big people go through so much
verbal abuse it isn't funny, and
they think it's okay to fight back
with more if someone tells them
to go eat a f.ucking sandwich.
no matter how skinny you are, if
someone calls you FAT, it hurts.
and no matter what size you are,
skinny makes you feel good.
CAN'T WE JUST STOP PAYING
SO MUCH ATTENTION TO OTHER
PEOPLE'S BODIES? SO WHAT IF
SOMEONE IS SKINNY? SO WHAT
IF SOMEONE IS CURVY? GET OVER
IT. IF YOU LOVE YOUR BODY THEN
EMBRACE IT, IF NOT CHANGE IT.
IF SOMEONE LOVES THEIR BODY,
LET THEM, IF NOT, THEN LEAVE
THEM ALONE AND LET THEM
LEARN TO LOVE THEMSELVES
OR LET THEM CHANGE.
(and I swear if one of you are like
"yeah, curvy is fine, but I don't support
obese and fat people because it's
unhealthy and gross" then get the
f.uck out. let's not pretend that skinny
means you're healthy. skinny people
can actually be as unhealthy as obese
people- filling their body with fast food,
no exercise, other bad habits, they just
happen to be able to eat whatever and
not gain a pound. doesn't mean they're
healthy. OH AND FAT DOES NOT MEAN
UNHEALTHY. unless you're their Dr.,
kindly shut up.)