i
don't
believe
in
the
nice guy. I think that everyone has a
nice side, and a bad side. I believe that we all snap when we
should be patient and say things without totally thinking them
through. I believe that we all have the capability to be
compassionate and giving and empathetic and everything in
between. But I do not believe that by simply being
communicative and candidly interested in someone you are
automatically “one of the nice ones”. You
don’t get to automatically label yourself as better or
nicer than someone. You don’t get to use being a nice guy
as a reason to attempt to push your way into someone’s
life. You don’t get to cry “nice guy” when
things don’t go your way and pout about not being chosen.
And you don’t get to cast yourself as the hero in someone
else’s story. Because you know what? They might not even
be looking for a hero. I know I'm not. I'm my
own hero.
“
Calling
yourself a nice guy is really just an excuse you make for why you
shouldn’t be rejected. Calling yourself a nice guy is
really just a whiney way of lamenting that someone didn’t
choose you. Calling yourself a nice guy is just a way to justify
your bad behavior when you’re feeling bruised and bite back
instead of moving on. Being a nice guy is an excuse to make that
paints someone else the villain, instead of simply respecting
their decision even if you disagree with it. Because even the
nicest nice guy still doesn't want to hear the word
“no”.—Kendra Syrdal
”
I've
succesfully
Made it out of the
friendzone(:
the friend zone
is so funny bc the guys who complain about it aren't even in
the "friend zone" they're in the "ugh not this
guy again" zone.
Always
the
Friend,
Never
the
Girlfriend.
When you're in the friendzone,
SHE TELLS YOU SH*T LIKE "I WISH I HAD A GUY LIKE YOU" LIKE YOU NOT SITTING RIGHT THE F*CK THERE
S
not my quote
Just the way you carry
yourself on a daily basis is incredible. It's like, no matter
what happens, no matter who hurt you, no matter how many things
are going wrong in your life, you always have a smile on your
face. & you have the confidence every guy wants their
girlfriend to have. I love you. I've loved you for longer
than I can even remember & it's been so great hanging out
with you, I just want us to be somthing more...
*yikes so i guess i'm friendzoning him a little.
Dear Boys,
You say that you're always friendszoned by us girls but have you ever stop to consider why?
Maybe we know you like us, but we don't like you like that, so we don't say anything because it could affect our friendship.
A friendship that might just mean everything to us.
Sincerely, the Girls.
You say that you're always friendszoned by us girls but have you ever stop to consider why?
Maybe we know you like us, but we don't like you like that, so we don't say anything because it could affect our friendship.
A friendship that might just mean everything to us.
Sincerely, the Girls.
