After a girl gets out of a
toxic
relationship, she's single fora long time.At first,
it's lonely in the
begining, it's hard.
For a little while it even
hurts.But after acertain amount of time,she
embraces beingsingle
andfinds itempowering knowing thatshe doesn't
need a man to be
happy. But
once a girl
gets
comfortable with being
single, it's
hardfor her to be mentally
attracted toanyone. Once a girl gets
familiar withbeing on her own,
it's hard for her
tobe emotionallyconnected to anyone. Once a girlgets
used to taking care of herself, it's
hard for her to be
dependenton anyone. Thereason behind
that is, she's not trying
to go back to that darkplace she was in before,
she's not trying towaste her time on a
guy who's
gonna turn out to be undeserving,
and she'snot trying to end up
with the
wrong one. She's spent a lot of time detoxifyingherself and
finding herself again andthelast thing
she needs is for anothertoxic
guy to come along and
cause her to lose herself
again. So yeah , it mayrequire extra attention, it may requireeffort ,and
it mayrequire time but
ifyou somehow manage to get her to not
want to be single anymore,
then you're
gonna get a girl
who'swhole
again, who'ssecure enough, and who's ready to loveand
beloved
again.