Mindset Quotes

"People interfere in a person’s internal family matters not with an intention to resolve the feud, but mere with a selfish interest of showing own importance as a judge. Only foolish individual invites those devilish minds as mediators in own private home dispute."
~Anuj Somany
"Perhaps the only way for a husband to know the true mind graph of his wife is to make her laugh wildly or annoy her deeply enough; else she can hide many SECRETS from him all throughout her life."
~Anuj Somany





"When you go out into the woods and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some of them are bent, and some of them are straight, and some of them are evergreens, and some of them are whatever. And you look at the tree and you allow it. You appreciate it. You see why it is the way it is. You sort of understand that it didn’t get enough light, and so it turned that way. And you don’t get all emotional about it. You just allow it. You appreciate the tree. The minute you get near humans, you lose all that. And you are constantly saying ‘You’re too this, or I’m too this.’ That judging mind comes in. And so I practice turning people into trees. Which means appreciating them just the way they are."

~ Ram Dass

So we become familiar with these little sayings like:
Nice guys finish last
Good girls fall for bad guys

Some of us start to believe them.  Don't.
I'm a genuine nice guy.  I'm respectful, caring, passionate, and protective.  I've always been a sensitive dude.
For a while I started to think nice guys really do finish last.  I thought I was destined to be forever alone.
It's not good for morale or self esteem.  If you're a real man like me, don't change a thing.
One day, a women, hopefully the one you've been dying for, will notice you.  You will grow old together and fulfill your dreams.

I've been through hell and back these past few months.  I really want to start the new year off well before I join the navy.
You have to be ready to accept that maybe the girl just isn't for you and vice versa.
A simple change of mind is all you need.  It's a transition.  It won't happen instantly but you need to make it happen if you don't want to stay depressed.
Your feelings might not change.  Maybe they're not supposed to.  Just look at things from different perspectives and views.  It helped me?

Best of luck,
Cosmo, Love Martyr

Everything is the way it is according to your mind set
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