but
speaking
from
experience, if your parents are
constantly telling you something is off about that boy or girl
you brought home, you should probably pay more heed to their
words than an eye roll or flippant “you just don't
want me to grow up”. They know. Their keen
judgment is like a sixth sense. None of the subtlest warning
signs that you've been too carelessly infatuated to see
have escaped their notice. Nine out of ten times they
aren't saying your new friend is giving off toxic vibes out
of jealousy or selfishness or pure spite; they've sensed
something sinister beneath the smile and manners, and
they're telling you for your sake. Not so they can ruin
your life and keep you all to themselves and ensure you
don't get any. They only want to protect and guide you, and
they deserve more credit for their efforts than condescending
disbelief and disregard. Take their well-intentioned advice
into consideration now, and you could possibly spare yourself a
world of disappointment and hurt later. I've learned
‘mother knows best’ the hard
way.
PSA!!!!: It gets better.
PSA:
If someone asks you something in one language,
please respond in that language
or else bystanders will be utterly confused.
Thank you
If someone asks you something in one language,
please respond in that language
or else bystanders will be utterly confused.
Thank you
I'm
well
aware
I spent
three
days
alone
in a
cell,
a simple
easy
price
to pay
for
something
that
I felt.
Towards
someone
so deserving,
I hate
those
who
pray
on the
weak.
If asked
to do
it all
again
I would
if needed
be.
You
all
have
something
to say,
or something
to ask,
I don't
live
in a
cage..
It's
none
of your
business.
I am tired of people with
no medical backround telling me about my own body, or the bodies of
others.
Please, to anyone who listens to people without a medical background, no matter what website they go their information from, please don't go off of what they say.
Stick to what your doctor tells you, not what some random person says he or she found online. I don't want anyone getting sick or hurt because someone without any medical jurisdiction thought he or she could play doctor for a little bit, or saw one video on youtube and now knows everything. I am not saying that everyone on here lies about whatever medical knowledge they spew out, but just don't go off of that alone. Consult a professional before anything, please.
This is not meant to offend anyone on here, I just wanted to get this out there.
Please, to anyone who listens to people without a medical background, no matter what website they go their information from, please don't go off of what they say.
Stick to what your doctor tells you, not what some random person says he or she found online. I don't want anyone getting sick or hurt because someone without any medical jurisdiction thought he or she could play doctor for a little bit, or saw one video on youtube and now knows everything. I am not saying that everyone on here lies about whatever medical knowledge they spew out, but just don't go off of that alone. Consult a professional before anything, please.
This is not meant to offend anyone on here, I just wanted to get this out there.
Friendly reminder that sleep will always be 100000000000000% more
important than completing all your homework, so if you've been at
it for hours and you still haven't finished by ten pm, then just
go to bed because finishing some homework and having around eight
hours of sleep is a lot better than finishing all of it and only
getting four hours of sleep.
Anxiety
Attack:
--Usually extended over a longer period of time
--Symptoms include: Muscle tension, disturbed sleep, difficult concentrating, fatigue, restless sleep, etc.
Panic Attack:
--Usually quick and more intense
--Sypmtoms include: shaking, chest pain/discomfort, heart papilations, fear of dying/losing control, feeling of choking, etc.
What to do if someone you know is having a panic attack:
--Telling the person to "calm down" does not usually help
--Telling them to "stop overreacting" will make them feel worse.
--Try to tell them that it will pass and that it will not last forever
--Reassure them that they are in no danger
--If they want space, give it to them. Don't make them feel closed in, even if you have good intentions.
Remember that panic attacks can make a person feel as though they are dying
Imagine if you suddenly felt like you were about to die, and you genuinely believed it right at that second. You could feel your throat closing and your start sweating and shaking. Your heart begins to race and your stomach begins to twist.
This is what people feel, so please be respectful.
Supporting someone while they're having a panic attack is an amazing thing to do. But, be aware that what you say may can cause more harm than good, regardless of your intentions.
--Usually extended over a longer period of time
--Symptoms include: Muscle tension, disturbed sleep, difficult concentrating, fatigue, restless sleep, etc.
Panic Attack:
--Usually quick and more intense
--Sypmtoms include: shaking, chest pain/discomfort, heart papilations, fear of dying/losing control, feeling of choking, etc.
What to do if someone you know is having a panic attack:
--Telling the person to "calm down" does not usually help
--Telling them to "stop overreacting" will make them feel worse.
--Try to tell them that it will pass and that it will not last forever
--Reassure them that they are in no danger
--If they want space, give it to them. Don't make them feel closed in, even if you have good intentions.
Remember that panic attacks can make a person feel as though they are dying
Imagine if you suddenly felt like you were about to die, and you genuinely believed it right at that second. You could feel your throat closing and your start sweating and shaking. Your heart begins to race and your stomach begins to twist.
This is what people feel, so please be respectful.
Supporting someone while they're having a panic attack is an amazing thing to do. But, be aware that what you say may can cause more harm than good, regardless of your intentions.
If we go on a date, please never take me to a concert.
It is hot as nuts in there, so don't touch me;
and I'll be so distracted by the music so you will get zero attention
It is hot as nuts in there, so don't touch me;
and I'll be so distracted by the music so you will get zero attention
