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But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
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In Adam Levine's bed... which I'm never gonna leave...
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Same in Massachusetts. I woke up this morning from it being 70 degrees yesterday to there being snow. Like what even...do I need to remind mother nature the definition or spring or..?
In all honesty I would. If you guys are friends and you are positive he looks at you as a friend and you know hectares about you, reading this would mean the world to him. It happened to my friend. It was actually at a school dance and we were slow dancing and I told him I was like "do you remember in Spanish when you told me better things would happen and I'll get better?" And he said yes and so I said "well being friends with you, I think that they already have." And it meant the world to him, he kept telling me and we were so caught up in our conversation we didn't even realize that the slow song was over and we were still dancing.
What I'm trying to get to is that there are many different ways to tell him, just don't be why because someone has to step up to the plate and do what has to be done.
I guess I'm just afraid I look way more into things than he does. Like, I don't even know if he cares about us not being friends. Yeah, there's been a few indications he might, but as I've said, I just don't understand him. At all.
Like, we were all commenting on the same status, and this was after I deleted him again. I had liked some of his comments because they were funny. Then he commented, "Grace likes my comments, but isn't my friend..." and I was like, joking around, "I love you, though <3" and then my friend Avery typed these messages telling us to handle our situation differently and told me to add him. So, I sent him a friend request. Then he said, "should I accept it? Yeah or nah" and he hadn't accepted it yet, so I deleted the request. Then he was like "Or delete the request..." and I was like, "Well, you weren't accepting it anyway" and he was like "I never said that. I said yeah or nah."
And also after I deleted him, he had messaged me asking "y u do dis" and I said it didn't matter if I deleted him since we didn't even talk anyway. To which he said the things I post amuse him. Like, okay. That's why I should re-add you? So I don't know. I want to be done with him, just forget about him. But something stops me, and I don't know what. Or why.
Well I would stop and wait. If he wants to be friends, eventually he will show it. I don't exactly know what to do, I'm sorry, but I have a little tip: guys kid, A LOT. Never take it seriousl, cause it sounds like he was joking when he said that but I can be sure and I'm going to respect you for what you did. I had the same feeling with a guy too. We got into a huge fight and we stopped talking for 3 months, even though we saw each other everyday. The friend from the slow dance, well I told him about the dude and he made sure we became friends again. But before he did I tried talking to the dude. I stepped up to the plate and did what I did. It didn't turn out too well but I do think it impacted us when we became friends again in a positive way. So I would try talking to him if I were you. Don't send this to him just yet, but talk to him and and find out what's up. Why he's doing what he's doing and then try and put the pieces together and find out why you're doing what you're doing and why he means so much to you.
I don't think I'll send him this message ever. It's way too long. But maybe I'll talk to him. I don't really know what to do. It's like, I'm terrified that he just doesn't care at all and that would kill me. :/
But thanks for talking to me about this, though. :)
An dim going to respect that. I understand why. And yeah go for it girl! It can be about cheese for crying out loud! Just talk. If he doesn't care in the long run, I'm coming over there and showing him what he's missing p, Kai?
I can imagine messaging him about cheese, lol. xD I've always been afraid to message him first. Even when we were friends. Any time we did talk, he had messaged me for some reason. And okay, we'll go find him together. C; Maybe beat him up slightly or something. ;D
Ahaha messaging about cheese can be fun, not like I've done it before or anything.......who am I kidding I do it all the time. But here's a fun fact, guys love it when the girl texts first.
And yeah, maybe just a little. If you count two black eyes, a swollen cheek, about three broken bones and a few cuts and bruises as a little. Hehe xD
No, it's not flirting. Haha. He and I have become closer friends lately, but we would never work out dating ever for many reasons. I'm just thankful to have him as a friend. :)
I have a friend like that he's sooooo sweet and friends with my ex but I don't know what I would do without him he makes me happy when I'm sad and sad when well never
Well, he's annoyed me a few times. Haha. But for the most part, he causes positive emotions. He once dated one of my close friends, so dating him would be way out of the question. Haha. xD
Argh I know what you mean like one of my friends kept bugging him so like kept asking him out and I guess he just said yes so she would stop. He hated it but I tried my hardest to help but I just kept making fun of it. She can get annoying and cry about things (everything that is offensive) it's soooo annoying so I just gave up on being there for her but I am there when she really needs it.
Agreed.
What I'm trying to get to is that there are many different ways to tell him, just don't be why because someone has to step up to the plate and do what has to be done.
Like, we were all commenting on the same status, and this was after I deleted him again. I had liked some of his comments because they were funny. Then he commented, "Grace likes my comments, but isn't my friend..." and I was like, joking around, "I love you, though <3" and then my friend Avery typed these messages telling us to handle our situation differently and told me to add him. So, I sent him a friend request. Then he said, "should I accept it? Yeah or nah" and he hadn't accepted it yet, so I deleted the request. Then he was like "Or delete the request..." and I was like, "Well, you weren't accepting it anyway" and he was like "I never said that. I said yeah or nah."
And also after I deleted him, he had messaged me asking "y u do dis" and I said it didn't matter if I deleted him since we didn't even talk anyway. To which he said the things I post amuse him. Like, okay. That's why I should re-add you? So I don't know. I want to be done with him, just forget about him. But something stops me, and I don't know what. Or why.
But thanks for talking to me about this, though. :)
You're welcome. Hey, I'm always here, got that?
Okay. :) Same here, anytime you need someone. <3
And yeah, maybe just a little. If you count two black eyes, a swollen cheek, about three broken bones and a few cuts and bruises as a little. Hehe xD
And thanks that's sweet of you, I'll remember it.
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