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Its honestly harder than you think.It's the hardest thing I've think I've ever done. It took me 7 years and its sill hard to talk about. It's not like sharing your favorite ice cream flavor or an embarrassing story about your childhood. Its the most intimate detail of your life and your ashamed and embarrassed and so many other things. I'm not writing this to make you fell bad or pity me. I'm just trying to give you a little knowledge from a person who's been there. Its not simple or easy. It doesn't have a set answer but i hope people who have went through what I went through will one day speak up. You don't have to understand why a person wouldn't proclaim this aspect of their life to the world, but I hope you respect there decision until they're ready to talk :)

because it means they are not alone in a place where they think they are. and they are excepted to an extent among the ones who label themselves similarly; it makes them feel like they arent the only one
(sorry if this was a rhetorical question :)

i may be of service O.o
i dont know how to make quote look nice but i can type and i think thats a start :D

im here yo listen
i was abuse when i was younger and i completely understand so if you want to talk to me im here to listen
Really i am

it's not my place to say but..
if you really hated to do this you wouldn't have done it.
i believe writing should be about expressing yourself not about "x" amount of favs :/
it just shows that you have an ulterior motive which doesn't hold well with people on here
just saying

thats the magic of editing, my friend :)

i would love to be your witty best friend :D

She doesn't already have something homemade that only you can create.I agree with your idea of a painting or you could make her a collage of you two together. It could include inside joles and weird little things that will remind her of you when your gone. You could add a letter telling her how much she means to you and i can guarantee it wont be read just once.
Just give her something meaningful that she'll love for years and that came from the heart!
hope this helped :D

*pass. Sorry for any Misspelled words I didnt have time to reread this because it's late and my iPod is about to die. Just hang in there . Sincerely hope things go well for you :)

I understand that your scare. I was to I didn't tell anyone until 6 year after it happened and the way my parents found out was not my decision. I think what can motivate you is the fact that you making that young girls life so much better by telling someone. I didn't tell my parents directly. They found out because one night at drama club I started crying. It was out of the blue and no one know why. My2 of my teachers who were also the head of the drama department questioned me but still I wouldn't say. That night Ihought it through and decided to tell one of my best friends. About a month later out of the blue she asked me if my parents know what happened. I told her no because that was the truth. Later that day I was sent to the guidance counclers office. They said hat one of my friends told one of my girl teachers who was the head of the drama department what happened. That day my whole world came crashing down but it also saved me from myself. I guess the moral of the story is that it's normal to be scared of what might happened. As soon as the guidance counclers told me what was going on I thought my parents were going to hate me. I thought that they would think I was lying too but they didn't. They accepted it in a way and didn't stop loving me because of something you nor I caused. Your parents might surprise you. I will tell you that there was a period of time where all my mom would do was question me. But that pasted when she realized that I didnt want to talk. Another thing is you don't have to be the one to tell your parents. If your like me and you dont like face to face comunication You can write it out in a letter and then talk it out later. I think at some point you will have to talk about it though :/. It could be with a local counclers( you could check online for free places near you). If things don't go well I hope you know that you ( in my opinion) made the right decision!! Things will turn out the way they should. If your religious I suggest you pray about it for afew days to a week. Even if your not religious you could still pray. I hope it goes great for you. If your going to tell them face to face just tell them you need to talk and then come out and say it if you beat. Arounds the bush youll lose your courage. Through it all it's important to stay positive the storm will oass

When you cut your life short you'll never reach your potential. You will never know if it does get better or not. And i dont think you should tell people that it doesnt get better .There is always hope! And this is just my opinion but I don't think People on here should post things like this one a place like witty. It's full of impressionable teens who feel that since their lives aren't perfect now that it will never get better in the future. I'll be the first to tell you that IT DOES GET BETTER if you really try your world will open up and new opurtunities will present themselves. This is coming from a person who as been through a lot at a very young age it gets better but you have to be alive to see it. Stay strong please and if someone needs to talk I'm always here!

Because its so hilarious to joke about people forcefully losing their virginity. its hysterical when you think about it right? no its not because when you stop and think about what actually
is you notice that is disgusting, repulsive, revolting, and so many more words i could say.
i come to witty to get away from that and people who make ill thought out quotes like this just remind me of thoses times i felt helpless and violated.
so congratulations for at least provoking those emotions from me.

-sincerely a victim

this is honestly incredible! sooooooo true i love it :D

I don't know if telling you i COMPLETELY understand will make you mad or comfort you but ive been there. I know what your talking about. i may not have experienced what you've went through exactly but i know what it feels like to feel taken advantage of because your small. i can tell you that not telling because he has a daughter (in my opinion) is not the best idea because its bound to happen to her if it hasn't already happened before. You may not feel this way but i wouldn't want anyone to go through this. if there was a way for me to stop it i would in a heart beat. i understand that telling someone is almost as hard as living through it. i know!! it happened to me. I still don't go to counselling because its still to hard for me to talk about. And as many times as you've heard it i'll tell you again. It does get better.
I hope you make whatever decision you fell is best for you.
i want you know that there are people that are here to help and that im not in anyway a trained professional. im just a 14 year old girl talking from experience.
i want to give you a high five ( i still dont like hugs but maybe thats just me) for being brave enough to reach out to people even though its not in real life its a HUGE step and im so very proud of you for that. I hope you stay stong and i truely wish the best for you!!! (sorry my mommy mode is showing). Know that you are loved and appreciated and so important to the would and no action should and could can take that away from you. EVER you arent defined by your past. its still apart of you but never let it become all of you once that happens then he wins and you never want to give him that satisfaction.
i hope this help in the slightest bit
you can take what you want from it. i hope to see positive post from you in the future :)
And i hope i help some other people out there who need it. im always here or you could email me at littlethingsinlife_d@ymail.com
i love you all!!!

maybe if you stick them in your bra... lol i couldnt resist :)

i love this!! exactly how i feel all the time!!!

I think the problem is that these girls that are having at a young age DO plan to stay with these guys. But when is added to a relationship between two young people it changes the relationship like you said and then that plan of staying together is gone.
Keep your hearts protected ♥

i can text whats wrong?