Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something

The one that hurts the most is actually saying something you wished you hadn't because when you say it, you can't take it back, but when you don't say anything, it's better because you won't hear the response that you don't want to hear.. Sometimes it's just better to keep your thoughts to yourself to save your heart from breaking from the response.

The second because when you don't say something that you really wanted to it tears you apart from the inside because you don't know how it would have turned out if you had said it. Yu wonder if it could have made a difference

saying something you wish you had not. because you always have the chance to say something you had not.

honestly is is both. ive done both with the same person i lost them either way. the pain is the same but it makes you stronger

The pain is equal.

Idk, I think falling down the stairs hurts more...

aww

i think not saying something when you had the chance
because you probaly wont get the chance to again :(

and you can say sorry for saying something you wished you hadn't said

Agreed!

saying something and wishing u had not ,because u can never take it back..
saying nothing is jus safer

Definitely. Wondered for ages which would be better. Then I told him and found out.