does anyone know how to change the cursor on my page?

Find a (non-animating) cursor on the web, like on this site: http://www.cursors-4u.com/ but instead of downloading the cursor, right click the download link and choose "Copy link address". (That's the command I see in Firefox. Your browser might have a different but similar command.) Then go back to your witty page. Click your own image at the top right next to the search box. That opens your options. Under Account Settings, click Edit Profile. When that opens, scroll down to the Cursor URL field. Right click in that field and choose "Paste". (The pasted text should end in .cur for cursor. If it ends in .ani for animated cursor, it won't work, and you'll need to choose a different cursor.) Then click the Save Profile button. That causes witty to download the cursor and display it for people using your page.

thanks for the help :)