Well first off thank you all for all the help! but I am ending it with my current boyfriend. That is whenever he talks to me -.-. Anyways With the guy that's leaving I feel like xSara_Jox74502 is right and I shouldn't let him choose. If he wanted to be with me he just should. And I've talked with him about that. It's just complicated. Blah highschool. I'm just gonna have fun and not give a damn
If I were in this situation, I would tell my boyfriend that me and this senior have a thing for eachother and that you just wanna be friends.
Give the senior dude some time to think, don't pressure him into breaking up with his current girlfriend, though.
.. But with your boyfriend, I think you should tell him everything and just hope he understands.
in all honesty. Neither. Cause they both sound like jerks. I mean your boyfriend obviously doesnt give. and that other guy. sweetheart when a guy says he doesnt know who to choose. Dont let him. Becasue if he was worth your time and love, he wouldnt even have to choose. i know you like him and everything, but hes just using you so he can have someone to fall back on, when he leaves. and what if he stays with his girlfriend? and instead of being with you when he comes home, he goes with her? im just saying. I know it hurts but you gotta do whats best for you. Not for him, not for her or your boyfriend..
I say go for him! Long distance is hard, but if you care about him you'll push through :) and as for the 'neglectful boyfriend' he doesn't seem to care anyway. no matter what, You should probs dump him.
Give the senior dude some time to think, don't pressure him into breaking up with his current girlfriend, though.
.. But with your boyfriend, I think you should tell him everything and just hope he understands.
-hope I helpedā„