-When I ask you 2listen to me & you fell you have to so sumthin

-When I ask you 2listen to me & you fell you have to so sumthin to solve my problem then tou have failed me strange as that may seem. _When you do sumthin for me that I can do for myself you contribute to my fear [&&] weakness _And I can do for myself; im not helpless.maybe discouraged (&) faltered buh not helpless