I hope you read all this, because that would mean a lot to me
(:
Okay, so when my parents split up when i was 6 or 7, i actually
started having suicidal thoughts, and on my birthday's i would
wish that my parents would get back together, but obviously that
didn't happen. And then when i was in primary school, like,
everyone hated me and i had no idea why, and i never cared about
the way I looked back then, and they would call me fat, and ugly...
I did have a lot of weight then... And then my 'best
friend' would write in my diary "I hate you" and some
other stuff too but i don't remember what. And then when i came
to secondary school in year 7, everything hit me. Everywhere I
looked there would be these girls with foundation on their face,
and they would all be skinnier than me, . And everytime I looked in
the mirror i would just be like "EW EW EW" and so I
started wearing makeup every single day, and I would stop eating,
and my mum and dad found out and my dad would force feed me until I
felt really sick, and then my 'best friends' mum was like
"You need to eat me, your skin and bones!" And then i
guess i started eating more, but everytime I gained a bit of weight
I would freak out and then I would stop eating or I would eat less,
and then i found out about self harm, and I thought that it would
be the best way to take everything out, on me.
And I hate when people say "looks don't matter" when
in reality we all know it does.
Anyways, i attempted suicide on 28th May 2010, and my mum caught me
and she got so mad at me, and then on the 29th May, i got really
sick. I would be sick after everything i ate and i would start
panicking and then i would be sick even more and I was really
confused, and then my mood swings got extremely worse and my
thoughts were going crazy. And then my parents had this massive
fight that included the police, and I just sat at home watching my
mum being taken away in the police car, and i had to stay with my
neighbour for the day and i went into school crying... And then my
dad would bring up the subject about what happened almost every
day, and it would drive me mad.
And still today, everytime I gain weight i freak out.
There have been times when I don't know what to do and i wonder
how the hell do i get through this? I know i sound like an
attention seeker right now..
So tell me, how do I just 'get over it, its gone now. Be
happy' when i'm pretty sure we both know,
It's not that easy.
In reality we are practically being pressured into looking a
certain way, and to act a certain way and we have to be a good size
of weight.
I just wish that people would be happy with the way they looked,
but that's not the way society works.