Have you really thought about what forgive and forget really means
to you? It's actually a simple, but complicated answer,
here's what I've believe what it means.
Forgiving someone isn't just saying "oh yeah what you did
was okay" No, my form of forgiving is when you finally can let
yourself stop being angry at that person, because when you're
angry, who does it affect? You. It doesn't affect anyone, but
you. You're getting tired of holding that anger, maybe letting
go of it, that could help, but you wouldn't forget what your
friend/family did to you. It happens.