I Need Advice/Help
Ok so my boyfriend of two/three days now said
something to me that really struck and broke me
Normally this
wouldnt have done this to me but it hurts me
He was so nice
and is still so sweet and ive known him for a while soo we
started dating
now im wondering if i made the wrong choice....
He said that most of the girls that he dated were a mistake and that he shouldnt have dated them
and i said not to say that cuz thats what makes him himself and how i found him
he kept saying it and finally i got upset and told him to stop and that it really upset me
i dont want to be just one of his other mistakes i dont want to be like that
and i dont know if i should stay with him although its only been like 3 days
i know its early in the realationship but ive known him for quite a while now and this just is a side of him i dont like
should i stay or should i go
this really upsets me and i dont know what to do
the main girl he was talking about dated him for about 5 days but she was so sweet and they are still friends and i really like her
but he said it was crap and he wish he wouldnt have dated her
im glad if i dated anyone like wtf even if it was like for an hour i would have been glad for the experiance and continued even with any of my other relationships i dont regret a single one becuz they made me who i am and i appreciate every human being that decided i was going to be special for them
and even if i wasnt i was with them and they changed me
i regret none of the relationships like sure they made me sad and upset me but i would never changed whether i was with them whether it was for a couple a days months or years
it just upsets me that he considers them mistakes because they arent they just werent for him nobody is a mistake everyone comes into your life for a reason and it really upsets me that he would think that
and so im not sure what to do
whether to blow it off and continue the relationship or to dump him and have him learn his lesson and just stay friends........
help me out i know you cant make my descion for me but i want
to know what you would do how you would react and ill make my descion eventually i just want some help thanks for anyone that responds
now im wondering if i made the wrong choice....
He said that most of the girls that he dated were a mistake and that he shouldnt have dated them
and i said not to say that cuz thats what makes him himself and how i found him
he kept saying it and finally i got upset and told him to stop and that it really upset me
i dont want to be just one of his other mistakes i dont want to be like that
and i dont know if i should stay with him although its only been like 3 days
i know its early in the realationship but ive known him for quite a while now and this just is a side of him i dont like
should i stay or should i go
this really upsets me and i dont know what to do
the main girl he was talking about dated him for about 5 days but she was so sweet and they are still friends and i really like her
but he said it was crap and he wish he wouldnt have dated her
im glad if i dated anyone like wtf even if it was like for an hour i would have been glad for the experiance and continued even with any of my other relationships i dont regret a single one becuz they made me who i am and i appreciate every human being that decided i was going to be special for them
and even if i wasnt i was with them and they changed me
i regret none of the relationships like sure they made me sad and upset me but i would never changed whether i was with them whether it was for a couple a days months or years
it just upsets me that he considers them mistakes because they arent they just werent for him nobody is a mistake everyone comes into your life for a reason and it really upsets me that he would think that
and so im not sure what to do
whether to blow it off and continue the relationship or to dump him and have him learn his lesson and just stay friends........
help me out i know you cant make my descion for me but i want
to know what you would do how you would react and ill make my descion eventually i just want some help thanks for anyone that responds
DEAR EVERYONE ALIVE,
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND NOT A MISTAKE
I LOVE YOU
KEEP LIVING
KEEP SHINING AND BE YOU
AND REMEMBER EVERYONE IS HERE FOR A REASON
LOVE YOU ALL <3
My friend cuts. She starves herself. She doesn't want help. I
want to help. I'm scared to help. I don't want to lose
her if I tell. What do I do?
Me:*Humming along to Faceless by Godsmack*
Mom:I remember when you used to say you hated Godsmack!
Brother: How would she know? All she listens to is Nippleback!
Me:Nippleback?!
Brother: Nickelback!
Mom:What you got on your mind boy??!
Mom:I remember when you used to say you hated Godsmack!
Brother: How would she know? All she listens to is Nippleback!
Me:Nippleback?!
Brother: Nickelback!
Mom:What you got on your mind boy??!
I am so over all of this heartbreak you constantly
cause.
Someone find me.
I'm standing in the pouring rain;
Alone and Broken.
I'm standing in the pouring rain;
Alone and Broken.
I see your fake smile. Because
believe me, darling, I know that smile. I know what it feels like
to reply, "I'm good." when someone asks you how you
are. But not because you are good, because you're just so
used to saying it, that you don't even think about it
anymore. You don't even realize the question that's being
asked. Your response is just so rehearsed, that is comes out with
no effort. Just like that beautiful smile, darling. It breaks
your heart to lie to those you love. It's so hard to tell
them everything is perfectly fine.
But it's even harder to tell them the truth. You don't want to be in such a vulnerable state. You can't handle that kind of pity. But you gotta believe me when I tell you, darling, you're not alone. I'm here for you.
I understand that reflection you see every night. The one you don't even recognize anymore. That same smile that you've been wearing for years to fool everyone into thinking you're fine, has finally fooled you. Just for that split second, when you look in the mirror and see that stranger smiling back at you, you believe it. You actually think you just might be happy. But then, your heart starts to hurt, your body starts to ache, your tears start to flood, and all the memories come back. You're not okay. You're not happy. You're dying from the inside out, and nobody even bothers to notice.
You feel like you're alone and everyone has given up on you. But you have to believe me, you're not alone, darling. I'm here. I'm right here holding your hand. I'm rubbing your back as your cry on my shoulder. Even if you can't see me, or hear me, I'm here. And I'm not going anywhere. Because I know what it feels like to want to just throw it all away and say, "fu-- it." I know what it feels like to think, "I'm not worth it. Nobody cares about me, and everyone leaves. So it's my turn. I'm going to be the one to leave this time, and leave THEM hurting and alone." But darling, you are so incredibly worth it. Your life matters to me. Even if we've never talked, or if I don't even know your name.
I'm here for you. And I care about you. I don't want you to go anywhere. Maybe I'm your best friend, I care about you, and I don't want you to go anywhere. I know it's tough darling, but hang in there. Do it for me. Do it for everyone who's ever told you they loved you. I'm so sorry you have to wear this fake smile every day, but stay strong, darling. Stay strong and hold on to the mystery of tomorrow.
But it's even harder to tell them the truth. You don't want to be in such a vulnerable state. You can't handle that kind of pity. But you gotta believe me when I tell you, darling, you're not alone. I'm here for you.
I understand that reflection you see every night. The one you don't even recognize anymore. That same smile that you've been wearing for years to fool everyone into thinking you're fine, has finally fooled you. Just for that split second, when you look in the mirror and see that stranger smiling back at you, you believe it. You actually think you just might be happy. But then, your heart starts to hurt, your body starts to ache, your tears start to flood, and all the memories come back. You're not okay. You're not happy. You're dying from the inside out, and nobody even bothers to notice.
You feel like you're alone and everyone has given up on you. But you have to believe me, you're not alone, darling. I'm here. I'm right here holding your hand. I'm rubbing your back as your cry on my shoulder. Even if you can't see me, or hear me, I'm here. And I'm not going anywhere. Because I know what it feels like to want to just throw it all away and say, "fu-- it." I know what it feels like to think, "I'm not worth it. Nobody cares about me, and everyone leaves. So it's my turn. I'm going to be the one to leave this time, and leave THEM hurting and alone." But darling, you are so incredibly worth it. Your life matters to me. Even if we've never talked, or if I don't even know your name.
I'm here for you. And I care about you. I don't want you to go anywhere. Maybe I'm your best friend, I care about you, and I don't want you to go anywhere. I know it's tough darling, but hang in there. Do it for me. Do it for everyone who's ever told you they loved you. I'm so sorry you have to wear this fake smile every day, but stay strong, darling. Stay strong and hold on to the mystery of tomorrow.
what do you do when you're invited to a party where you
barely know anyone,
and you're the most awkward potato ever?
and you're the most awkward potato ever?
Guys... I
seriously need some help...
I don't know what to do. I am in a relationship with this girl in my school right now. But... I am truly not happy with her any longer.. I don't know what to do about it. She is crazy about me. She says she loves me. And I can tell she does. But I don't. I'm still hung up over my ex. I'm still sooo in love with her. And my gf now knows this. But I just can't deal with her any longer. Her true colors are really shining through. They are not like they were in the begining. I'm afraid to break it because she is a great person and a great gf. But she isn't the one for me. She does everything right. Even treats me right. But I can't anymore. What do I do?? She is going to Florida next week with me for spring break... I can't do anything about it right now. But I will have to soon. But I would greatly appreciate if you guys can help me out a little with what to do and say.
I don't know what to do. I am in a relationship with this girl in my school right now. But... I am truly not happy with her any longer.. I don't know what to do about it. She is crazy about me. She says she loves me. And I can tell she does. But I don't. I'm still hung up over my ex. I'm still sooo in love with her. And my gf now knows this. But I just can't deal with her any longer. Her true colors are really shining through. They are not like they were in the begining. I'm afraid to break it because she is a great person and a great gf. But she isn't the one for me. She does everything right. Even treats me right. But I can't anymore. What do I do?? She is going to Florida next week with me for spring break... I can't do anything about it right now. But I will have to soon. But I would greatly appreciate if you guys can help me out a little with what to do and say.
